Perfectionism – The Dangerous Trap
Just when I have something figured out, along comes another how-to-article telling me how to be or do something better or even change my entire life. No matter where I turn, I am constantly reminded that I am not good enough in more ways than one. (more…)
The Perrfectionist Demon!
One of the worst habits you can have is to be a perfectionist. Most people do not even realize that being a perfectionist leads to the horrible habit of procrastination - putting off the things that you know need to be done.
The basis for procrastination is the fear that we will not do something properly (more…)
Developing A Magnetic Personality.
It’s amazing how people gather around a person who exudes confidence. Someone who believes in himself and sees the potential in others around him.
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A Whack Up `Long Side The Head Of Human Resources: The Leadership Imperative
Human resources, despite the function’s complex activities, should have a fundamentally simple mission, yet it is a mission that is being neglected by many HR professionals. I call that mission the Leadership Imperative — helping the organization recruit, retain, and develop good leaders. Here is a three-step action plan to get the HR function off the sidelines and into the thick of the game. (more…)
Are You The Most Powerful Leader You Can Be?
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Summary: If you are in a position to teach, manage, parent or influence others you are undoubtedly in a leadership role, but do you lead as powerfully as you could?
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Leadership Skills: Four Ways Of Overcoming Perfectionism
The High Price of Perfectionism
We pay a high price for perfectionism. “What perfectionism?” we perfectionists mutter. “We’ve known for years perfectionism is not healthy so we have dealt with this issue and strive for personal excellence only!” Really?
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Public Speaking - The Key Is In The Body Language. The 8 Stages To A Successful Presentation
Most people have a fear of speaking to a large group. This is a totally normal apprehension. People may visualise the audience laughing at them, or shouting out. This is an extremely rare occurrence, unless you are a politician.
Most people listening to you are aware of the pressures you are under (more…)
Leadership Qualities
There is no doubt that a lot of emphasis is placed on leadership qualities today. However, this is nothing new. If my school history lessons were anything to go by it seems that it is the leaders that we learn most about. Many people believe that the world is divided into two types of people, the leaders and the followers. (more…)
Yes, I`m Concerned But What Can I Do About It?
The second main component of the first habit is around what Covey calls the “circle of influence”. While this is quite a basic concept, it probably will have the biggest influence on your behaviour as it did mine.
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Getting Your Message Across With Good Rapport
I bet you have had times when you have walked into a shop and felt immediately welcome. I’m also pretty sure that you’ve had occasions where you’ve felt just the opposite. What was the difference? What happened in the place that created that welcome feeling within you?
Maybe the assistant noticed you entering and offered you a smile and said hello. They are telling you that you are welcome in their space both physically and mentally. Compare this with a shop where you were completely ignored until you went to pay for something. What message are you getting there?
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