Male Menopause? Not!
It’s hard to adjust to a world seemingly spinning out of control. Getting ahead in the “old” economy is getting harder and harder. There are limited resources for men who want to challenge the status quo, who want to break out from the “shoulds” that rule them, who are confused any more about what it means to “be a man.” (more…)
Waiting To Exhale
Before entering a room of well-intentioned relatives anxiously waiting to ask pointed personal questions about your love life—or lack thereof—what do you do? Hold your breath and count to 10, then exhale deeply (repeat if necessary).
Not surprisingly, the very thing that gives us life makes us calm. (more…)
Dealing With Colic Without Losing Your Mind
For a brand new mommy, or even a seasoned one, dealing with a colicky baby can be overwhelming. The constant crying is heartbreaking and nerve wracking, and leaves you with a sense of helplessness. But don’t lose heart; the only good thing I can tell you about colic is that it’s temporary. Here are a few ideas to keep you going. (more…)
How To Start The Process Of Life Change
If your debts are building up, your relationship is leading you astray or your career is at a halt, it’s about time you analyze your situation and start the process of life change.
Make a decision today to do all that you can to transform you life. To do or not to do; it’s all up to you. (more…)
Recovery & Stewardship: Is “What’s In Your Wallet?” Affecting Your Bottom-Line?
Many men in recovery find they need to set limits on their spending habits; often men will include financial accountability as part of their commitment to recovery in general. Although sexual addictions have dramatic effects on some men’s finances, for many more its influence is more subtle and may lie “under the radar. (more…)
Are Your Dreams Trapped Inside Your Head?
Sometimes a dream needs a little help. Even in our social andbusiness relations, the race is not to the swift, but to theverbal - the spellbinding orator - the silver-tongued seducer.
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You Have A Choice
I’m a relationship coach and, unlike most, I deal with those ‘other’ relationships. Of course, I make love happen without wings and an arrow, but I really make a difference with business relationships, family relationships, community relationships, old and stale relationships and all the rest that we take for granted, lost or forgotten. (more…)
Abandoned Again - How We Repeat Our Childhood In The Present
The woman on the couch looks up at me miserably, tears in her eyes, as she tells me about her most recent bad relationship. “I’m sick of choosing guys who aren’t there for me. They seem great, they want me, they tell me how terrific I am, then either they have an affair, or turn on me once we are involved, getting that cold look in their eyes. I can see they don’t care after all. I can’t stand this. Why do I do this over and over?” (more…)
Why Planning Your “Re-Fired” Retirement Is Vitally Important
Just about all of us plan to retire one day. You may visualize yourself with plenty of free time on your hands, no commute, and finally with an opportunity to travel with the person you love.
But statistics show that golden dream comes true for only a very few of Americans. Some studies reveal less than 10 percent of us ever retire. (more…)
I Hope Things Pick Up
“I hope things pick up. It’d be a shame for you to have to get a real job.”
As I heard these words come out of the mouth of a woman I had regarded as a friend for over ten years, I felt my heart collapse. Another word spoken, another relationship broken. I had heard so many discounting things from her so many times before. (more…)